
Yesterday at 5:30 a.m. I was sitting at the stoplight at 11th & Warren in the pouring rain. The light turned green, and as I twisted the right grip to accelerate and felt the balance of two wheels beneath me, I had a flash of the first time I had ever felt this sensation of balance. (I will admit that for a moment I worried that my life was flashing before my eyes and perhaps I was about to get hit by a bus.)
I can't say for sure how old I was, but I remember my sister teaching me to ride a bicycle. We were on 3rd Avenue, the street that lay one block west from our house, and had minimal traffic. There were no sidewalks on this street. The edge of the road simply butted up against the lawns, or lack of lawns, in front of houses. I was on what had been my Aunt Teresa's little green bike with the banana seat. One minute my sister was holding onto the back, and the next minute she was a half of a block behind me, cheering me on. I don't remember if I stopped myself or wiped out, but I do remember that first sensation of balance on two wheels.
As this memory came to the surface, I was filled with a rush of gratitude for my sister. What a wonderful moment in time. What an important thing she taught me. I was not the easiest of students, I was the kind of kid who was afraid of everything. It probably took a lot of effort for my sister to get me on that bike. For the rest of my life, the expression "It's like riding a bike" is a credit to this person I've always looked up to, in more ways than one, my big sister.